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今週末に結婚式を挙げる彼女、新たな一歩を踏み出す今、過去を振り返る時ではないかもしれない。

何を知りたいかと聞いたら、「私は誰?」と一番大きな質問が返ってきました。

何に恐れていますか?と聞いたら、答えは「家族を失望させること」でした。

そこで私は、ファミリーコンスタレーションをすることにしました。

彼女が選んだ精油達:ホワイトローズがお母さん、ヴェチバーがお父さん、ハニーサックルがお姉さん、プルメリアが旦那さん、そしてメリッサを自分自身として選びました。

ローズ+ヴェチバーに対し、メリッサは軽さ、明るさを与えよいコンビになり得ます。ただ、ローズとハニーサックルがセンターステージを占領して、メリッサの居所がありません。

メリッサはプルメリアとペアを組み、ゆずの明るさで将来を生きる方がよいと結果が出ました。

少し心配だったのは、この3つは全てミドルノートなので、もう少し重いのーとか、もっと軽いノートが必要でないかという事、また、4という数字が安定、家庭を意味し、5という数字が冒険という意味なので、そこで彼女の許せる範囲で探してもらおうと提案しました。また、自分を外敵から守るような精油を選ぶこともできたはずです。しかし新たに彼女が選んだ物にはそのような役目がありませんでした。

この時点でストーリーがはっきりとしました。

​将来あり得る苦労への準備は必要なし。優しいメリッサのままで船出をしても、ゆずの明るさで十分新たな人生のパートナーと生きていかれるでしょう。

In Japan for studying the language, As she is getting married this weekend, this is perhaps the time of new expectation and not for reflection. So when asked to state a question, she posed the biggest one of all, “who am I”, and when I asked what she was afraid of, said “disappointing people” (her family)

I decided to make family constellation with her.

Her choice: White Rose for her mother, Vetiver for her father, Honeysuckle for one of her sister, Plumeria for her husband to be, Melissa for herself, and Yuzu for who she wanted to be.

White Rose and Vetiver would make a good couple, and Honeysuckle as one of her sister was a fine choice. It was an interesting that she chose Plumeria for her husband to be, and no flower for herself.

With Rose and Vetiver, Melissa could compliment, acting as lightness, softness in the composition. Rose and Honeysuckle and Vetiver could possibly work together, but I imagined both Rose and Honeysuckle would be happier taking the central role, and with that mixture Melissa would have not made the significant change as it could not provide enough highlight, and Honeysuckle gave the sweetness already.

 

It was enough to discover that Melissa is better off pairing herself with Pulmeria and Yuzu, her future self to bring more light.   

I was concerned the composition will be too compact, too middle note and encouraged her to look for other components - something heavier or something lighter, as far out as she can tolerate, so that the total elements would be either four, to symbolize her new home, or five, to symbolize her new adventure. Additional elements could also provide the firmness/grip/stability or protection from unforeseen aggression from outside. But her choices revealed that she would not go out of her way to stretch. At that point the story became clear. There is no need to prepare for any unexpected hardships. She can go sail out into the new world as tender Melissa and the lightness of Yuzu will be enough to create the synergy with her new partner in life.