Explained in Yin Yang Five Element

Earth of Water Element - Yang of Yin/Yin Element - Plant Self
Period of personality imprint - During gestation to birth and up to seven years old.
Five Questions (Existential) - How Are You?
Five Questions (Metaphorical) - If you describe your upbringing as a plant, what kind of soil have you grown up in?

A. Over fertilized. Too much expectation that was actually burdensome
"Therefore I need my own structure to grow tall."

A few word about the condition.

Water Element’s organ Kidney energy is responsible for building our skeleton and creating the marrow inside bones. Any hereditary disease are also said to be deficiency of the Yin of the Kidney. The Yang of Kidney is responsible to carry the earth energy up to nourish the body.

A person may have received healthy body but not necessary support during early formative years to build a sound structure. It is also possible that one receives too much love in a wrong manner (for example material support but not emotional) or too much expectation which robs a breathing space.

A person with the deficiency tend to show lack of patience or give up prematurely. It is also possible that one is unable to solicit necessary support in adult life.

The fear of being inadequate turns to envy for others and the life will become constant uphill battle. You can learn from plants that grow in mountains at high altitude. They grow slowly but surly even if the ground is steep.